Pay Attention to Changes in Behavior of Those Who Report to You
After some time as a Provost, you will get to know the personalities of those who report to you. Some will be more enthusiastic than their colleagues and some will be more relaxed and laid back. Some will have lots of questions for you and others will only ask questions when the need additional information. Some will produce things you ask for quickly and some will take more time even though both meet the deadline you set. Some of those who report to you will produce outstanding reports and some will produce reports that fill the requirement but are not outstanding. Some of those who report to you will always be present with a positive mood and attitude and others will fluctuate in their mood and attitude. After many interactions, you will get to know how each of those who report to you do their job and how they generally present themselves to you.
It is important that you pay attention to any change in the behavior, attitude, or mood on the part of those who report to you. Noticeable changes in these characteristics could be a sign that something is wrong with them that needs your attention. I had an administrator who was a very productive person. He was hard working, enthusiastic, and his reports and other documents were among the best I had ever seen. He had a good relationship with his peers and some close relationships with a few of his colleagues. After several years, I noticed that he seemed to be on edge a lot. His emails were more negative and questioning than they had ever been, and he seemed annoyed when I gave him some tasks to complete. He seemed to have changed and not for the better. After some time, I sent him an email asking him how he was doing. I said that I noticed a change in his behavior and mood, and I was concerned that he may be having problems that were affecting him. I was careful not to be accusing or punishing in what I wrote. He responded to my email apologizing for his behavior. When I responded I said he had nothing to apologize for and that I was concerned that he might be going through something with which I could provide some support and help. In his response, he thanked me for my concern and support and asked if he could speak to me. He gave me a call and we discussed what I had observed. It turns out that there were several personal issues that were weighing on him and that it was difficult for him to focus on his work and these problems were affecting his mood and attitude. I never asked him about personal problems, but simply offered my support and help. I told him that I didn’t want to intrude into his personal life and told him that I was available to help in any way I could. He said he really appreciated my concern and willingness to help but he was handling those personal issues himself and was confident he would be able to work things out. After that interaction, I would ask him how things were going. He would tell me he was fine and that he had been dealing with his problems well and he again thanked me for my concern. I noticed that his behavior, mood, and attitude began to return to his normal state. I mentioned that to him on occasions. During all of our interactions, I was careful not to get involved in his problems but reminded him that I was available for help and support when he thought he needed it. I also was careful not to ask him how he was doing every time we interacted so that I would not be putting additional stress on him by continually bringing up the issues. As a Provost, it is important for you to be seen as a person who is supportive and helpful. Being negative or punishing to a productive person who reports to when they make a mistake or go through a rough time in their lives only makes things worse. It demoralizes that person and communicates to the rest of those who report to you that you are not willing to understand human fallibility when it comes to dealing with issues and problems.
It is important for you to pay attention to changes in behavior, mood, or attitude of those who report to you. It is best to be supportive and offer help, being careful to be supportive and not to interfere.
Louis Primavera, Ph.D., Associate Provost for Special Projects
Touro University